Sunday, June 17, 2007

Perfect Relationship

This week has been the first time I have spent more than a couple of days away from Dusan at a time since he moved in with me in Jauary. I was working in Birmingham till 1800 on Friday and had to be back to check into my hotel this evening for an 0800 start tomorrow. So rather than spend half of the weekend driving down and up the M6 and M1 I stayed up. Birmingham has one of the most vibrant and condensed gay scenes in the UK with the entire gay village set around Hurst Street. I've never counted them but with over a dozen bars and several clubs it would be rude not to explore one or two.

So after work Friday and a quick naughty bite to eat (for when you cant be bothered to sit in a restaurant with a book all on your own there is always McDonalds. Yes its bad for you, but its delicious). Oh I also stopped at Tesco Metro for a bottle of Vino to wet the pallet. One bottle of Vino and half a McDonalds Meal later I was half sloshed as I headed down to Hurst Street some 15 minutes walk away. This evening was hosting XXL at DV8. Its a club for Bears and their admirers. I guess with my recent weight gain I probably could be classed as a cub (Young Bear) but who knows. The great thing about XXL is that its so uninibited and completely without any of the bitchiness or the nastiness that the gay scene can hold. XXL welcomes everyone. After all their logo is "One Club fits all". The music was fantastic, the crowd friendly and the drinks were cheap. Now switching to bear (oops Beer) may not have been the smartest move and possibly why I am almost the correct size to fit into XXL. I wont complain, I know the real reason to my size increase is the fact that I am in love and content at living with the man of my life.

I managed to get home to the hotel around 0200 and amazingly slept for a full 12 hours! Isnt that an amazing feeling when you sleep that long and dont realise its that late until you wake up. Like the reverse of when you wake up early and think, Poo I could have slept in today.

Having woken at 1400 and absolutely shattered I had wanted to spend my day at the ballring, Birminghams 140 Shop mega Mall right in the city centre. Of course, it was not to be. I was so shattered from the week at work and my nights fun at XXL all I wanted to do was go back to the hotel room and chill. So after I bought the jeans I saw on a Mannequin in the shop window I wwent in and bought the said jeans. Nice butt huggers.

Post that, a sandwhich and the ties and cufflinks we were missing for the Civil Partnership and I was ready to head back to the hotel. Just time to stop at the Tesco Metro and pick up some food for the evening. Hmm, what should it be? 2 bottles of Shiraz, a Chicken Salad and a Yoghurt. All fits in within the £20 per night meal allowance we get.

Back in the hotel room I glued into Dr Who (Wow good episode) and Britains Got Talent, before a nice long soak in the bath and a bottle of Shiraz. Before I knew it it was 1030 and if I was going to leave it was time now or stay in for the night.

I made my way into town , down to Hurst Street and into Missing for a quick couple of drinks then the Gale. (Nightingale). It wasnt that busy and I was maybe too tired to enjoy it but I had fun non the less. Ariving back at hotel a little worn out in the early hours. Maybe the Shiraz and Beer had something to do with that.

Today I woke and missed Dusan more than ever. Never spent more than two days appart in six months so its not been easy. I called him several times throughout the day and then spoke to Marcus and Carlos this evening. They told me they were off to DTPM. I had spoken to Dusan and he sounded lonely and I know how much he would love to go to our faveourite club and when Marcus offered I thought, well it would be rude not too. So called Dusan and asked "Would you like to go to DT with Chops & Carlos? He sounded so excited when I mentioned it I just knew that I had made his day. And thus that is us, Dusan and I. The perfect relationship. Doing whatever the other needs to make them happy. Loving each other, caring for one another. I'm so lucky and in love and if that doesnt make me a Lucky Bitch I really dont know what does. But I am happy and ready to make him my husband!

Roll on Tuesday, I go home to him then. Until then, Goodnight. Love Neil x

Mannequin

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